Have you ever been hurt and thought, “They’ll never apologize… so why should I forgive?” You’re not alone. Forgiveness can feel impossible when the person who hurt you doesn’t care. But here’s the truth:
Biblical forgiveness isn’t about changing them—it’s about obedience to what God calls us to.
In this week’s episode, we dive deep into biblical forgiveness—how to release the debt owed to you, bless those who hurt you, and find freedom in Christ, even when the other person refuses to change. This isn’t theory—it’s practical, soul-healing truth you can apply today.
THIS WEEK’S SACRED SOUL NOTE…
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This week’s scripture:
"BLESS THOSE WHO PERSECUTE YOU; BLESS AND DO NOT CURSE”
JOURNAL PROMPT:
Who are you still holding onto pain from? Write down their name, and ask yourself: What would it feel like to release the debt I believe they owe me?
Follow-up Questions:
Are you letting bitterness control your actions?
Can you pray for this person honestly, even if it’s hard?
What would happen in your life if you chose forgiveness today, independent of their response?
Where can you mirror God’s character through grace, humility, and mercy in this situation?
How can I be praying for you?
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May we not cling to our pride, bitterness, or desire for an apology, but seek first the kingdom and the wisdom of God in how we honor Him in forgiving others.
In joy,
Cheyenne
FAITH STAPLES
Cheyenne’s Favorite Finds for Nurturing Faith
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▶ Worship/Christian song currently on repeat: The Chant by Jackie Hill Perry
▶ Current read: Nothing but the bible at the moment. :)
▶ Recipe I can’t stop making: Ginger Chicken Meatball Sandos
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